Grade 5 · SEL · Lesson 27

Assertive Communication

Assertive communication is how you say what you need clearly and respectfully — without going silent and without going harsh. It is the middle path between passive and aggressive, and it is the one that actually gets your needs met while keeping the friendship intact.

What this lesson teaches

1Describe the difference between passive, assertive, and aggressive communication
2Use an "I feel ___ when ___; I need ___" sentence to speak up clearly
3Match real-life scenarios to a respectful assertive response
4Choose assertive words that protect your needs without hurting others

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