💛 SELGrade 4Lesson 35
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Peer mentoring week

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Learning Objectives

  • 1Describe the roles of mentor and mentee in a peer mentoring relationship
  • 2Explain how empathy supports effective peer mentoring
  • 3Identify active listening skills used during peer support
  • 4Recognize how peer mentoring builds relationship skills
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Mini Lesson

Peer mentoring is a relationship where one learner (the mentor) supports another (the mentee) in developing skills, confidence, or knowledge. During peer mentoring week, you practice both roles — being a guide and being a learner.

Mentor and Mentee Roles

  • Mentor: guides learning, shares skills, gives kind feedback, encourages, leads by example.
  • Mentee: asks questions, practices skills, accepts feedback openly, stays curious.
  • Both roles require respect, patience, and a growth mindset.

Empathy in Peer Mentoring

Empathy is essential for a mentor. Understanding how a mentee feels — nervous, confused, or frustrated — helps the mentor choose the right words and approach. A mentor who shows empathy creates a safe space for learning.

Active Listening Skills

  • Make eye contact to show you are fully present.
  • Nod and give short responses ("I see", "Go on") to encourage the speaker.
  • Ask open questions to learn more ("How did that make you feel?").
  • Do not interrupt — wait until the other person finishes.
  • Remember key details to show you were truly listening.

Why Peer Mentoring Builds Relationship Skills

Peer mentoring requires communication, trust-building, and empathy — all core relationship skills. When you mentor someone, you learn to be patient and clear. When you are mentored, you practice receiving help gracefully. Both experiences make you a stronger collaborator.

Peer Mentoring RolesPeer Mentoring RolesMentor• Guides learning• Shares skills• Gives feedback• Encourages• Leads by exampleMentee• Asks questions• Practices skills• Accepts feedback• Stays open• Grows and learns
Active Listening SkillsActive Listening SkillsActiveListeningEye contactNod and respondAsk questionsDo not interruptRemember details
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Tip: a great mentor asks "What do you understand so far?" before explaining — it respects the mentee's existing knowledge.

Vocabulary
mentor
A person who guides and supports someone with less experience.e.g. My older buddy is my reading mentor.
mentee
The person who is being guided by a mentor.e.g. As a mentee, I asked my mentor for advice.
peer
Someone close in age or grade.e.g. Working with peers can be helpful and fun.
active listening
Paying full attention to someone speaking and showing you understand.e.g. Active listening means making eye contact and nodding.
empathy
Sharing and understanding another persons feelings.e.g. Empathy helped him comfort his upset friend.
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