💻 TechnologyGrade 3Lesson 18
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Respectful Communication in Messages and Comments

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Learning Objectives

  • 1Explain what respectful digital communication looks like
  • 2Distinguish between respectful and disrespectful messages and comments
  • 3Apply communication guidelines to classify online messages correctly
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Mini Lesson

When you send a message, write a comment, or post online, your words can reach many people. Just like speaking kindly in person, you must also communicate respectfully in digital spaces. Kind words build friendships; unkind words cause hurt — even through a screen.

What Respectful Communication Looks Like

  • Using polite greetings and thank-yous in messages.
  • Staying on topic and not sending off-topic or random messages in group chats.
  • Giving honest but kind feedback: "I liked your idea. Maybe you could also try..."
  • Reading your message before sending to check the tone sounds friendly.
  • Asking before sharing someone's photo or work in a group chat.
  • Using proper punctuation and clear language so your message is not misunderstood.

What Disrespectful Communication Looks Like

  • Writing all in CAPITAL LETTERS — it looks like shouting.
  • Using rude words, insults, or hurtful nicknames.
  • Leaving someone out of a group on purpose to make them feel bad.
  • Spreading rumors or untrue stories about someone.
  • Sending many messages in a row to pressure or annoy someone.
  • Writing sarcastic comments that could be misread as cruel.
Respectful vs Disrespectful MessagesTwo chat bubbles. The green bubble shows a respectful message. The red bubble shows a disrespectful message.Messages: Respectful vs NotRespectfulHi! Great work onyour project. Couldyou share your idea?DisrespectfulYOUR PROJECTIS SO BORING!!!!Nobody likes it.Before sending, ask:Kind?True?Necessary?If any answer is No, do not send it.
Signs of Respectful Digital CommunicationSix signs of respectful digital communication listed as checklist items.Respectful CommunicationUse polite greetingsStay on topicGive kind feedbackRe-read before sendingAsk before sharingWrite clearly
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Before you post or send, ask yourself: Is it Kind? Is it True? Is it Necessary? If the answer to any of those is No, do not send it.

Vocabulary
Respectful
Kind, polite, and thoughtful toward otherse.g. My respectful comment made her smile.
Message
A note sent to someone online or on a phonee.g. I sent a message to my friend.
Comment
A reply or note added under a post or videoe.g. My comment thanked her for sharing.
Tone
How a message feels — friendly, angry, or neutrale.g. Capital letters can change the tone.
Kindness check
Pausing to ask if a message is kind, true, and necessarye.g. A kindness check stopped me from sending a mean joke.
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