💛 SELGrade 3Lesson 18
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Responsible Online Behavior

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Learning Objectives

  • 1Sort online actions as responsible or irresponsible
  • 2Explain why the same values of kindness, honesty, and respect apply online and in person
  • 3Apply the online golden rule before posting, sending, or sharing
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Mini Lesson

When you go online — to learn, play, or communicate — you are still you. The same values of kindness, honesty, and respect that guide your behavior in person should guide you online too. Being responsible online is called digital citizenship.

Responsible online actions

  • Think before you post — ask yourself: is it kind? Is it true? Would I say this to someone’s face?
  • Protect your personal information — never share your full name, address, birthday, or passwords with strangers online.
  • Treat others the way you want to be treated — this applies in messages, comments, and games.
  • Tell a trusted adult if something online makes you uncomfortable, scared, or confused.
  • Use screen time wisely — balance online activity with offline learning, movement, and connection.

Irresponsible online actions

  • Sending mean or hurtful messages, even as a "joke."
  • Sharing someone else’s private photo or information without permission.
  • Pretending to be someone you are not to trick or deceive others.
  • Agreeing to meet an online stranger in real life without a parent’s knowledge.
  • Visiting or sharing content you know is not appropriate for your age.

The online golden rule

  • Before you post, send, or share — pause and ask: "Would I be comfortable if my parent or grandma saw this?"
  • If the answer is no, do not send it.
Online and offline values are the sameTwo columns separated by an equals sign. Left column labeled Offline lists kindness, honesty, respect, think before you speak. Right column labeled Online lists the same values: kindness, honesty, respect, think before you post.Same Values, Any PlaceOfflineKindnessHonestyRespectThink beforeyou speakWould you say itto their face?=OnlineKindnessHonestyRespectThink beforeyou postWould a parent becomfortable seeing it?
Two mirrored columns — Offline and Online — showing that the same values apply in both spaces.
Online golden rule — pause before postingA stop sign shape with the word Pause. Below it two branches: Yes — comfortable if parent saw it, leads to a green OK to post. No — not comfortable, leads to a red Do not send.The Online Golden RulePAUSEWould I be comfortable if my parentor grandma saw this?YESOK to post / sendNODo not send it
The online golden rule — pause, ask the question, then post (yes) or do not send (no).
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Self-check: Think of one thing you have done online this week. Was it responsible? Would you do the same thing in person?

Vocabulary
Online
Connected to the internet through a phone, tablet, or computere.g. I follow the rules every time I am online.
Digital footprint
The trail of posts, photos, and messages you leave on the internete.g. A kind digital footprint helps me later in life.
Personal information
Private details like your full name, address, or passworde.g. I never share personal information with strangers online.
Cyberbullying
Being mean to someone online with messages, posts, or imagese.g. Cyberbullying hurts and is never okay.
Trusted adult
A grown-up you can ask for help with anything online that worries youe.g. I tell a trusted adult about a strange message.
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