💛 SELGrade 4Lesson 17
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Identify Ethical Choices

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Learning Objectives

  • 1Define ethics and explain why ethical choices matter
  • 2Distinguish between ethical and unethical choices
  • 3Apply a simple ethics test to everyday situations
  • 4Analyze an ethical dilemma and explain a reasoned choice
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Mini Lesson

Ethics is the study of what is right and wrong. An ethical choice is one that is fair, honest, and respectful to others. Making ethical choices helps us build trust, keep relationships healthy, and feel good about ourselves. Unethical choices may feel easier in the moment but often cause harm to others or ourselves.

What Makes a Choice Ethical?

  • It treats others fairly — the same way you would want to be treated.
  • It is honest — you would not be ashamed to tell someone about it.
  • It does not harm anyone physically, emotionally, or socially.
  • It respects rules, agreements, and other people's rights.

The Three-Question Ethics Test

  1. Is it fair? — Would I be happy if someone did this to me?
  2. Would I be proud? — Would I feel comfortable if everyone knew what I did?
  3. Does it hurt anyone? — Will this action cause harm to someone else?

Ethical Dilemmas

  • An ethical dilemma is a situation where two choices both seem acceptable, but one is clearly more ethical.
  • Example: You find a wallet with money. You could keep it or return it. Returning it is ethical because it respects the owner's property.
  • When facing a dilemma, use the three-question test to guide your thinking.
Three-Question Ethics TestThree-Question Ethics Test1. Is it fair?Would I be happy if this happened to me?2. Would I be proud?Would I be comfortable if everyone knew?3. Does it hurt anyone?Will this cause harm to someone else?
Ethical vs Unethical T-ChartEthical vs UnethicalEthicalUnethicalReturn a lost walletCopy answersShare credit fairlyTell a hurtful lieSpeak up for othersCheat at a game
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Tip: When you are unsure if a choice is ethical, run it through the three-question test. If any answer is "No", stop and reconsider. Integrity means doing the right thing even when no one is watching.

Vocabulary
ethics
The study of right and wrong behavior and the principles that guide our choices.
ethical
Describes a choice or action that is fair, honest, and respectful to others.
unethical
Describes a choice or action that is unfair, dishonest, or harmful to others.
integrity
Doing the right thing even when no one is watching.
dilemma
A difficult situation where a person must choose between two options.
consequence
The result or effect that follows a choice or action.
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