Being Kind Online: Digital Citizenship Rules
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Learning Objectives
- 1Define digital citizenship and sort behaviors into kind and unkind online categories
- 2Explain what cyberbullying is
- 3State what to do if unkind behavior happens to me or someone I know
Mini Lesson
Would you walk up to a friend and say something mean to their face? Probably not — because you know it is wrong and hurtful. The same rule applies online. Just because you cannot see someone’s face when you type a message does not mean your words cannot hurt them. Real people have real feelings — online or off.
What is digital citizenship?
- A citizen is someone who is part of a community and follows the rules that keep everyone safe and respected.
- A digital citizen is someone who uses technology and the internet responsibly, kindly, and safely.
- Being a good digital citizen means treating others online the same way you want to be treated.
Kind online behaviors
- Using polite, respectful words in messages and comments.
- Giving positive feedback on someone’s work — "That’s a great drawing!"
- Asking before sharing a photo that includes someone else.
- Leaving a kind comment on a friend’s post.
- Including everyone — not leaving someone out of an online group on purpose.
- Telling a trusted adult if someone online is being unkind.
Unkind online behaviors (and what to do)
- Sending mean, hurtful, or threatening messages — this is called cyberbullying.
- Leaving someone out of a group chat on purpose to make them feel bad.
- Sharing embarrassing photos of someone without their permission.
- Pretending to be someone else online to trick or frighten a person.
- Posting mean comments on someone’s picture or work.
What is cyberbullying — and what do you do?
- Cyberbullying is when someone uses technology to deliberately hurt, frighten, or embarrass another person repeatedly.
- If it happens to you: Do not reply. Screenshot it. Tell a trusted adult immediately.
- If you see it happening to someone else: Do not share or "like" it. Tell a trusted adult.
- You are never in trouble for reporting cyberbullying — you are doing the right thing.
The golden rule of digital citizenship
- Before you post, ask: Would I be comfortable saying this to the person’s face? Would I be happy if an adult saw this?
- If the answer to either question is no — do not send it.
Ask yourself: "What is a digital citizen? What is cyberbullying? What should I do if someone is unkind to me online?"
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